You've been crushing on this cute boy for a while now and he likes you back! But your BFF is sending him texts and getting close to him...too close. You've been getting into tons of arguments and she's crossed the line with her flirty behavior. How do you deal?!

My best friend usually has guys all over her. But whenever I like someone and that person likes me back, she goes for him. I like this guy so much and I think he likes me back. My BFF got his number and started texting him. He would text her back and at first they would talk only about me. Then she was all over my guy and he wasn't doing anything to stop it. I told her I didn't like him anymore just so she would stop talking to him, but she hasn't.

This has happened multiple times and I don't know what to do. I want to remain friends with her, but I also want my own boyfriends. Many other problems are going on between us and guys and I have tried talking to her...but it doesn't seem to stop. Please help me and help with my guy problem because I still really like him, but he might like my BFF.

BFF Fix- It: Ouch, this one is a major toughie! This BFF is player and it could be hard to stay pals. Since it does seem like you wanna stay friends, let's see if this one's worth holding on to.

First, think about your other problems with the BFF: Do a lot of them start crushing on her because of her uncontrollable flirting? Assess the situation, then sit down with her and talk it out. Ask her if she's ever thought about your feelings and tell her directly what your thoughts are in this sitch. If she reacts in an angry way, then it might be time to move on. But if your BFF actually responds in a calmly, then I think it's a friendship worth fixing. Remember, in any relationship, communication is key!

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10/12/2009 7:00:00 AM