A Boy Vs. My Buds

There was this boy who REALLY liked me, but all of the sudden he doesn’t any more. We weren’t official BF/GF but he just stopped liking me out of the blue! So, I called him to find out what was up.

His reason was because my friends were bugging him too much. My point is, he shouldn’t like or hate me for my friends! He should love me for me or hate me for me! What should I do? I still really like him.

Sometimes it is best to not let your friends get TOO involved in your relationships. As much as we love our friends, they don’t have to know everything about the guys we like. Sometimes guys see a girl they like's friends as people pushing them into being an official BF and GF. Were your friends constantly bugging this boy and asking him when he was gonna ask you out? Did they always try to talk to him about liking you? Your pals prob had good intentions, but they also probably got waaaay too pushy and your guy got annoyed.

I think you should talk to your friends about how he feels about them. A BF doesn’t have to like your friends, but he shouldn’t disrespect your friends. Since you really like this guy, I think it’s important for you to make this decision without your friends’ opinions.

So, if you two decide to become official BF and GF, you have to remember that you are in the relationship with him not your friends. On the flip side, if he really doesn’t like your buds, would you be willing to risk your relationship with THEM for a chance to go out with this guy? Weigh out the pros and cons of each sitch. But talk to both parties involved and see if you can’t smooth things out. And remember – it’s all about what makes you happy.

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3/13/2009 7:00:00 AM