Is he flirting with you or just a friendly dude?
What’s the difference between being friendly, joking
around and flirting? I can’t seem to tell the difference.
Bill: Being friendly is
showing politeness: “Hi, how are you?” Joking is trying to make someone laugh:
“Hey, what’s with the hair?” And flirting is trying to get someone to notice
you: “Hey, do you like this dress on me? Really? You’re just saying that....”
Being friendly might result in a casual conversation. Flirting might result in
a date. And joking might result in a
conversation, date or breakup. Class dismissed.
Dave: The difference is...
There isn’t one. That’s what makes flirting so wonderful. You never quite know
where you stand. Life would be boring without that tinge of doubt—was that a
sly wink or just fluttering to get a lash out of the eye? Besides, if doubts
about flirting didn’t exist, neither would Guy Q&A columnists. As for
Bill’s hair comment, that’s not friendly, joking or flirting. Take it from a
guy with goofy hair—that’ll get you nowhere.
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