LIFE

The holidays are here, but if big gatherings aren't your vibe, DW—you can still totally sleigh the szn. This guide is all about balancing festive fun with much-needed you time.

We're talking five easy, cozy tips for staying social without feeling drained. With these simple tips, you'll be ready to keep things merry and bright...your way!

1. Create a holiday hideaway

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Set up a cozy escape to recharge your social battery. Surround yourself with twinkling fairy lights, festive blankets and your fave feel-good movies. Having a quiet, peaceful and comforting spot to escape to can be the best way to stay in the holiday spirit without the social drain.

2. Plan solo holiday outings

@itsolivialevett

Make the szn yours with solo holiday outings that feel festive and fun. Treat yourself to a holiday market stroll, grab a peppermint mocha or just enjoy the lights during a walk at your own pace—perfect for soaking up the magic without the social burnout.

3. Practice a pre-gathering ritual

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Prep for holiday hangouts with a pre-gathering ritual that keeps you feeling calm and centered. Whether it's sipping tea, journaling or blasting your most-played hype song, this little ritual will help you recharge and bring your best vibes to the festivities.

4. Set boundaries with grace

@ohh.miaa

Keep the holiday vibes high by setting boundaries with grace. A quick, "I'm going to step out for a sec," or "I'll catch up soon" lets you slip away for a break from socializing without the drama.

Remember, the holidays are about your joy, too—so don't be afraid to say no when you need to. Protect your peace and keep it classy, bestie.

5. Engage in more one-on-one chats

@thenikkirossi

Ditch the big crowds and dive into more one-on-one chats this holiday season. Whether it's catching up over chai lattes, initiating a nice phone call or spending time chatting with someone new at the NYE bash, these intimate convos will leave you feeling connected without the overwhelm. Quality over quantity, always.

Tag @girlslifemag on Instagram and share how you're sleighing the holidays as an introvert—we want to know all your tips and tricks.

Looking for more holiday inspo? Check out these must-reads:
⛄ The introverts guide to surviving social gatherings
⛄ How to make a family group chat you actually want to text in
⛄ Here's how journaling every night changed my life (and how you can do it, too)

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by Diamond Johnson | 12/2/2024