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Spotted: You living your best life as the most confident and fun version of yourself.

We love Serena van der Woodsen as *the* It girl in Gossip Girl. And although everyone has their own faults and secrets (we can think of at least one character who has had her fair share...), Serena continues on her journey to find individuality and become the best version of herself. We can definitely take a few pointers from the Golden Girl of the Upper East Side on how to channel our brightest energy. So, here are five Gossip Girl moments where Serena taught us to be our own personal It girl. 

1. Don't be afraid to let loose

We're *obsessed* with Serena and Blair's iconic photoshoot back in season one. Not only did Serena show us how to get the perfect candid pic, she also showed us how to let your personality shine through. For all the shy girlies out there (dw, we totally get you), you don't have to take yourself too seriously all the time—have some fun, be silly and live like there's nothing stopping you. People will see the effortlessly radiant vibe you embody and want to do the same.

2. Make friends with people outside of your core circles

Remember when the Golden Girl met Lonely Boy in the pilot episode? This moment was the beginning of their story, and frankly, we owe it to Serena for giving Dan a chance. Even though Serena has her "own world," she doesn't stop herself from genuinely getting to know people who are different from her. Get out of your comfort zone and learn from others!

3. Be nice and friendly to build your relationships 

We know what you're thinking: How does she get out of every sticky situation unscathed? Even Serena herself knows that it's because she's just simply nice. This memorable Serena and Blair moment is one where Serena's character really comes through (as if she could sparkle any more than she already does). Her welcoming and friendly demeanor opens up a *lot* of opportunities for friendships and important connections. 

4. Fill up the spotlight 

Some may say Serena simply "walked" the catwalk at Fashion Week, but let's be fr, she full-on strutted down. The flashing lights and cameras don't overwhelm her—she fully embraces the attention and is proud to be who she is. Being humble is important, but so is owning who you are and showing off the best parts of yourself. 

5. Never be ashamed of your enthusiasm

There are always gonna be Debbie Downers in life who make fun of you for being too excited or passionate about something. But as we've seen from Serena throughout each Gossip Girl season, it's never a bad thing to show off your bright smile and infectious laugh. Don't dim your energy for anyone!

What is YOUR fave Gossip Girl moment? Share with us on Threads @girlslifemag! 

Want more Serena-type tips? Check out these posts: 
💋 4 light reads to add to your TBR list for an It girl summer
💋 The best ways to be your friends' biggest cheerleader
💋 The lazy girl's guide to a productive summer day 

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by Anne Chen | 8/6/2023