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What to do when your BFF starts dating a new guy and ignores you

 

My BFF finally hooked up with her crush. Now they get all lovey-dovey when I want to hang out with them, and they totally ignore me. I’m getting the impression that they don't want me around anymore. 
Dear Love Sandwich,

If you had a new BF, you'd probably want some alone time with him, too. Instead of fighting facts and feeling left out, can you give the new couple a little space? Tell your BFF you'd love to get together, just you two, to go hiking or bake cookies or watch a video or see a concert or have a sleepover. Arrange a time for her to come over. Patience will pay off because girlfriends often last longer than boyfriends.

 

 

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by Carol Weston | 2/1/2016
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