My history teacher is big on religion, and we were talking about religion in history. Keep in mind this is public school. He did the raise your hand if your Catholic, Lutheran, Jewish, and on and on. Then he asked who was left? There were 3 kids (including me). Two gave uncommon religions and I told him I am an athiest. Now I get made fun of. People are constantly making slurs about me, and purposly talk about "God" infront of me. These religions don't bother me because I know everyone is entitled to their own opionion, but it is very annoying. I really don't want my mom and aunt to know either because they are really big on religion, though we don't attend church. How do I quiet this down?'

-Anonymous'

Hey girl,

That's totally tough. While being different is hard, I'm super proud that you're being true to yourself and sticking to your values despite any criticism. I'm so glad that you're not firing back at these kids because you KNOW that everyone has the right to their own opinions! You go girl!

As for the kids who make slurs about you and talk about "God" in front of you, try not to let 'em bother you. Try telling people that it makes you upset if they belittle your beliefs. Ask them how they would feel if someone attacked their belief in any of their religious practices. If you want to, try explaining what an atheist is to some of these people…maybe try chatting about it with your BFF. Once people know what the deal is with your religious beliefs they really won't have reason to make fun of you.

If people at school continue to make fun of you, definitely tell your teacher or a guidance counselor. I know it may seem like you're "telling on" these kids, but that's really not the case. Religion is a serious thing and you're right-everyone is allowed to have their own opinion.

And about your mom and aunt? You don't have to tell them if you don't want to but definitely think about discussing it with them sometime soon. What is it about their religious beliefs that make you NOT want to tell them? I know it's going to be scary when you first tell them but think of how good it's gonna feel to get that off your chest. Point out why you hold these beliefs and what religion means to you. Show them how you've really contemplated this and they'll be super proud of how mature you are.

Good luck!
~*Cait

12/17/2007 10:00:55 AM