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We get it: Loving yourself can be hard. But, guess what? Feeling bad about yourself is *so* last year. Strengthen your self love with these GL-approved confidence boosters.

It's all about the fit 

@audreygracemarshall

We all wear clothes (obvi!), but many of us don't actually wear our clothes. What does this mean? Despite putting on our fits, most aren't wearing them proudly. If you aren't walking the halls with a look that makes you beam with pride, then how can you ever feel like your best self?

Wear clothes that makes you feel great. First: think about your personal style and wear makes you happy when it comes to fashion (here are some pro tips to get your started). By expressing yourself on the outside you'll be able to feel more confident and comfortable on the inside.

Practice mirror affirmations

@siennacartier

The most effective way to radiate self-confidence is to truly believe in yourself. How? Affirmations.

Affirmations are small, positive phrases that you can say aloud to boost your self-esteem. They can be physical, emotional, academic or spiritual. Phrases such as, "I am enough" or "I will ace my chem test" are simple, but can serve as a great self-motivator on those tough days.

Try new things

@mel.amartinez

We know that it's way too easy to get stuck in your daily routine—but the more that you step out of your comfort zone, the more confident you will become! 

Don't be afraid to break out of your shell and attempt something new, like joining a painting class or opting for a trendy, new haircut. Need some inspo? Check out these five hobbies to try.

Write it out

@hanna_noellee

Journaling is super underrated! What better way to unwind after a long day than by writing down your daily wins?

We recommend setting aside 10 minutes every night to free write. This can be right before you go to bed or as a break in-between your homework. Make sure to jot down *all* the important things that you want to reflect on. Feeling stumped? Check out these tips on journaling like a pro to break the writer's block. 

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Need an extra confidence-boost? Read these:
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💖 These confidence-boosting influencers will brighten up your feed
💖 5 confidence-boosting things to write on your mirror right now

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Top image: @mel.amartinez

by Miley Weiner | 3/6/2025