My ex boyfriend is extremely full of himself and thinks he is so muscular and fit. I am a dancer and I work out a lot, and I'm really proud because I'm starting to get abs. We were hanging out with some people and I said, "Feel my abs!" He poked my stomach and he said, "Malayah, you're just fat. Stop trying." I cried for the rest of the night. 

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