LIFE

2021 is on its way (phew)! Looking for some resolutions that relate to you? We've got you covered with the *perfect* resolution for your star sign to help you make the most out of 2021.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Practice more patience. Aries are motivated, confident people who always tell the truth. As a fire sign, you are notably energetic and like to do things your own way. However, this may seem like impatience to your friends and family. You like to be in control which can lead to impulsive decisions. In the new year, try practicing more patience to improve your ability to act rationally. You're a natural born leader who knows you do things best, but you'll notice by practicing more patience comes more time for well thought-out ideas.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Listen attentively. As a Taurus, you are full of knowledge and grace. Earth signs are typically more grounded and you are just that. Through your patience and steady mind, friends are able to rely on you, which is so important. Since you are logical and diligent, sometimes you can be stubborn and not want to hear or do what others think is best. It is difficult for you to change your mind because you like routine, however, stepping outside of your comfort zone and allowing change to happen will help you gain more experience. Listen to others when they speak and you will notice some people have the same ideas as you, and their ideas will can to new possibilities and knowledge. 

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Take a break. Geminis are curious and funny people who love asking questions and analyzing the world around them. You are very in touch with your emotions, which allows you to be a great communicator and listen well to others. Your mind is always racing with new ideas and plans, but this can be exhaustive for your mind. Take a break to look around you and appreciate what there is. Or, if you don't like what you see, change it. Geminis are very intelligent and busy, which doesn't leave enough time for you to pause and reflect. Take more time of your day just for you to reflect and you will still be just as curious but your mind will not be racing as fast.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Be more vulnerable. Cancers are sensitive and passionate. They love cuddling and have a deep appreciation for creative and artistic parts of life. Water signs typically carry their emotions heavily, and Cancers are emotional! But they also take on the emotions of others. They are caring and nurturing listeners, but it is rare for them to open up and be vulnerable. Let yourself express your worries and feelings to your friends and family. You will find that they are just as caring and willing to help as you are. You carry the weight of many emotions, so it is nice to finally let others help out, too. 

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Ask meaningful questions. Leos are exciting and loving people who do everything with their own unique charm. Your fiery side comes out almost in any situation. You have a deep sense of pride and love looking for new ways to grow. Since you are very confident and like to feel appreciated, this can lead to your light outshining others. While this is not your intent, try letting others have the attention on them at times by asking friends and family meaningful questions about their passions, successes or anything. This will help you form stronger relationships and create mutual respect. 

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Accept imperfections. Virgos are clever and motivated people. They like feeling useful and helping with something greater than themselves. Through rationality and intelligence, Virgos are wonderful problem solvers and genuine friends. The desire for feeling productive and orderly stems from a Virgo's hope to be perfect. This can create an intense lifestyle where you are constantly looking for ways to improve and fear letting others see inside your life. However, by accepting imperfections, you will feel less pressure to strive for perfection. You are your toughest critic so this will be hard, but realize that imperfections are part of life and you can still be just as successful and passionate with them.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Spend more time with yourself. Libras are ruled by the planet Venus, and *love* all things love, relationships and beauty. And that's great! But it's important to be able to enjoy time spent alone, too. Libras are often people-pleasers, and can spend plenty of time and energy trying to keep others happy while ignoring their own wants and needs. So try focusing on some self-care, whether that's a big bubbly bath with your fave TV show, or an evening spent journaling, the best thing you can invest in is yourself!  

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Let others help you. Scorpios are often the most misunderstood astrological sign, when the reality is that Scorpios are just incredibly passionate people. Sometimes that passion can manifest as a desire to take charge and do things on your own. And while it's important to be a capable and independent person, it's also important to let the people in your life help you when you need it. Your intuitive nature means you often know what others need, but the truth is, others know what you need sometimes, too.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

Try creating a routine. Sagittarians are known for spur-of-the-moment adventures and doing things on the fly. And that is so fun, but it can also wear you down. It's important to prioritize taking care of yourself and one great way to do that is by setting some routines. They don't have to be big—sticking to a skincare routine or meal-prepping your lunches are both great places to start. And once you start forming routines, you'll notice you have more time and energy for your more spontaneous side.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Schedule some down time. Capricorns are notorious for being workaholics. And while working hard and being passionate about what you accomplish is so important, it's also important to cut yourself some slack and take a step back from all the work. So try setting some healthy work/life boundaries. You might need to study for a big test, but you don't need to stay up studying all night. Set aside some time to hang out with friends (or yourself!) when you're filling out your planner.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Volunteer. Aquarians are represented by the water bearer, and are therefore one of the most giving and charitable signs. So if you don't already, try planning some time each week to volunteer in your community. Maybe it's your local soup kitchen or your local library, or maybe it's something remote, like tutoring elementary students in your fave school subject or donating some of your old clothing.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Learn to be ok with making mistakes. This one is definitely a hard lesson to learn, but it's the most important one. Pisces is a sign ruled by the planet Neptune, which represents escapism. It can be scary to fail, but we all do at one time or another, and we need to be able to face it head on. Pisces is the most gentle and dreamy astrological signs, and while you find yourself in your head a lot, it's important to give yourself grace when you fail.

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by Lily Baker and Erin Sargent | 12/24/2020