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Help! If we're dating, why does he have another GF?


My crush and I have been hanging out a lot. We go to movies together where he insists on paying for our tickets, everyone at school asks if we are dating, and he's even had dinner with my family. It seems like we're practically dating; trouble is, he has a girlfriend. I'm super confused! Please help!
  
I can totally see how you’re super confused by this situation! Are you guys just friends or more? He is either a great friend and cares about you, or likes you and is looking to start a new relationship with you. You’ll never be sure until you ask him yourself. I know, it seems awkward and weird to ask someone who could just be a friend if he likes you more than that, but asking him is the only way you’ll be sure to get the correct answer.
Ask him during one of your movie dates, so he will totally see where you’re coming from. Try starting the conversation by telling him that everyone at school thinks you guys are dating. If he doesn’t catch on, than you should be straight up and just ask what is going on between you and him. You can also add that you’re confused because you guys are going on dates, but he has a girlfriend. You’ll be sure to get your answer this way. And if he does agree you're dating? Tell him to make it just you two. It's not fair to her if he doesn't 'fess up and let her go. Good luck girl!

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by Mailyse Ferber | 2/1/2016
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