CRUSHES

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How to tell if he likes you, likes you

We all agree that it’s totally frustrating when you can’t tell if your crush likes you back. I mean, is he that friendly to everybody? Or just you? Was that smile an “I like you smile,” or just a smile? It would be so much easier if we were all like Edward Cullen and could read minds, but of course we can’t. Instead, we have to watch for little clues to see what is on our cutie’s mind. So here are a few things to look out for that might help you figure things out:

Poppin’ up

Does your cutie wait for you after class or steal the seat next to you at lunch? It might mean something if he always wants to be with you. Nobody would want to hang out with someone they don’t like.

Focus

When a guy is interested in you, he will listen to what you have to say. Does he look you in the eyes? Eye contact is a sign that he is paying attention. Also, don’t be surprised if he brings up little things from a your convo a few days later, like your fave band. 

Body language

You can tell a lot by a guy’s body language. Check to see if he is leaning towards you, and the directions of his hands and feet. If a he’s into you, he will lean in and his body (especially knees and hands) will be facing towards you.

Getting personal

Think about what you talk about. Things like homework are great convo starters, but he will want to share part of himself with you. Have you discussed things like your dreams? Friend problems? Talking about serious, but not overly personal, stuff can show you how he views you. You wouldn’t talk about this stuff with just anybody, only people you trust.

Keeping contact

Keep an eye out in case he touches you because he will want to keep you close. Look out for when he lets his hands graze yours when walking in the hallway, touches your lower back or playfully nudges you.

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by Hannah Hicklen | 2/1/2016
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