CRUSHES

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The Dirt: Why are guys so fickle with their feelings?


"Do guys change their mind about liking you? Last year I really liked a guy but he said he just wanted to be friends. Now, he acts like he really likes me. Could he have just changed his mind?”

 

His answer: “Yeah, I’d definitely say guys change their minds on liking someone,” reveals Will, 16. “He might not have put any thought into it before, he could have been involved with someone else when you asked last, or it’s possible he’s gotten to know you better.”

 

Decoded: It’s definitely possible that he could have changed his mind—we are human after all. Crushes usually develop after you’ve spent a ton of time with another person and gotten to know them. Maybe he now sees you in a completely different light, or maybe he was getting over a rough break-up. Any number of things could have sparked his interest in you.

 

Your move: The important thing is that you weren't waiting around for someone to change their mind (right?). If you’re still into him, go for it. If you’ve moved on, so will he eventually.

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by Alexis Gavrelis | 2/1/2016
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