CRUSHES

Be careful not to read too much into this, babe. There are quite a lot of factors that come into play during these situations. It’s very possible that he was not lying and that the breakup hit him hard. How much time a guy needs before he can move on properly varies incredibly. Some guys are good to go three weeks later, some need three months. Often, if the boy is holding on to the relationship, he simply won’t want to move on and he’d rather wait for his ex-girlfriend to be his again. That’s one possibility.

Another is that there are mixed signals somewhere between you two. If he does, in fact, like you, then why is he putting off being with you? Ask yourself this question: Do you know for sure that he shares your feelings? If he’s not sure how he feels about you, then honestly girlie, he doesn’t deserve you. You should never, ever put your life on hold for a boy who might be forever on the fence. Sure, this guy might be great, but there's no sense in waiting if there's no guaranteed future for you two.

If he can’t make a decision, then you make it for him and find one who will truly appreciate all that he’s got in having you affections. Good luck, girl!

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