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How chatty is too chatty around your cutie?

When I'm with my crush, I get really wound up and can't stop talking. He's two years older than me, so he probably thinks I'm so annoying. Is there a way I can calm down around him?

Hey girly! You should never change who you truly are to get a guy to like you. But if you feel that it is just while in his presence you are acting this way just calm yourself down before you see him. Taking 3 deep breaths can instantly calm you down and put you in a more relaxed mode. Just remind yourself that there is no need to be so wound up and that he will like you for who you really are.

If you find that staying calm still isn't working maybe you just have a lot of energy inside. Try and get rid of some of your energy before you know you will see him by hitting the gym for a quick work out or going for a run around your neighborhood. If you don’t have a ton of energy, then you wont be so wound up. Also, caffeinated drinks can really get make you hyper when you drink too much, so cutting back on your soda intake may be a good idea.

But remember, if you are naturally an energized person, don’t calm yourself down for a boy. Find someone who can keep up with you and wont hold you back.

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