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How to win over your ex's new GF

My BGF, who also happens to be my ex, has a new GF named Shyanne. I'm pretty sure she hates me. Do you know a way to help me get along with her?

Uh-oh, girlie, this could be just a tad trickier than normal. Chances are, since he's you ex and also you BGF that she may be automatically suspicious of you. She's likely to be wondering why the friendship continued on, or if there's still some feelings there on either side.

Lucky for you, girls open up to their friends. If you want to get on Shyanne's good side, you may have to take some time out to get to know her, without him tagging along. Throw out some conversations starters on Facebook, anything to let her know that you have nothing but good intentions.

Bring it up to your BGF, as well, he may be able to help you out. If she doesn't already know that you'd like to befriend her, he could casually toss that out to her. Or maybe he has the inside deets on why she seems so standoffish to you.

All in all, it's a really good idea to take this step. It shows some serious dedication to your friendship, and what makes him happy. Pat yourself on the back, babe!

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