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My BF and my besties don't get along
My boyfriend, who I just started dating, jokes around with my friends, but my friends take it the wrong way. So, my friend started yelling at my boyfriend at lunch! My boyfriend doesn't care, but I do! Now they ALWAYS make fun of my boyfriend and I can't stand it. What should I do?
Hey babe! The first thing you've gotta do in this sitch is figure out
who was right and who was wrong. Did your girls take your BF's joke the
wrong way, or did he say something that was actually offensive? If his
joke could have been nicer, have him apologize to your friend and make
sure he doesn't repeat his mistake. Your pals should be able to forgive
him if he is genuinely sorry.
If your BF's joke was totally lighthearted, though, and your friend
overreacted, you have to show them the side of your BF that you see– a
boy with a good sense of humor who just wanted to impress your friends.
Explain to them that he was just joking around and that he deserves
another chance to win them over. Next time he sits with you at lunch,
have him charm your girls with some slightly different jokes. Talk to
your BF before lunch to find things he has in common with your group and
make sure he brings them up in conversation.
The best way for your friends to stop making fun of your boyfriend is to
change their minds about him. If this doesn't work, then you can tell
your friends that it hurts your feelings when they tease your BF. If
they are your true friends, they won't want to make you feel bad. Good
luck!
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