CRUSHES

This guy have been "talking" or should I say "flirting" for a little over a month now. He comes over a lot and he will hold my hand and everything and will put his arm around me during movies and all that good stuff. I asked him the other day if he really thought of us as anything more than friends and he said "I don't know yet". Now I don't know what to do because I really am not a person that likes wasting time. I really like him! What should I say or do?

Hey girlie! Sometimes these things take time. He could always just be a cuddly kind of guy by nature or maybe he doesn't know how he feels about you yet. How often do you see each other alone? If you two get together all the time, maybe he needs a nudge in the right direction to see you in another light, as more than just friends.

Try to tow the "friendship line" a little more and see how super flirty you two can get next time you see him.  Invite him over one day and watch a movie. Cuddle up next to him and see how he reacts with you THAT close. If he doesn't seem to act any differently, step it up another notch and lay your head on his shoulder or rest your leg on his. Anything that seems completely not-just-friendly is a go!

If you don't feel like waiting until then to find out, or if you're nervous to make some moves, just straight up ask him how he feels. Tell him you like him. If he avoids the question entirely, he may be playing you and it'd be best to stay friends. If he still says he's not sure, accept it and either give it time or go on the hunt for a new boy.

 

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