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Help! I'm stuck in a crush triangle


So I kinda like two boys and they both like me. But now I like one more than the other and I flirt with him more, but I feel like I'm leading on the other one. I don’t know what to do, but I really have feelings for them both and everyone knows. Any help?

Hey girlie, you’re right; you don’t want to lead a guy on if you’re really into someone else. So if you’re interested in making one of them your BF, it’s time to stop flirting with the other. You can still be friendly to the dude you’re not so into, but cut the flirting ASAP and keep convos casual from now on. Hopefully he’ll get the hint and follow your lead.

But if choice number two asks you out or gets overly flirtatious (like holding your hand or sneaking love notes into your locker), be honest and let him know that you’re really interested in someone else. Telling him the truth is the best thing for both of you. You don’t want to go out with a guy that you’re not completely into and nobody wants to be their beau’s second-choice pick. So be kind but straightforward; he’ll get the point and go on to find someone else and you’ll be free to be with the sweetie you like the most.

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by Lauren Izquierdo | 2/1/2016
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