CRUSHES

Advice

Should I make a move on my BFF's ex?


My crush is always smiling at me and joking around with me. All my buds think he likes me, but I think he still likes his ex-GF (my BFF). Do you think he is falling for me or still hung on my bestie?

Hey girl! It’s totally possible that he’s crushing on you. Joking around with a crush is a guy’s #1 flirting tool. It probably feels great that he smiles at you and gives you attention, but you have to be careful since his ex is your BFF. It’s possible that he’s flirting with you to make her jealous if he still has feelings for her.

 

It will be super tough to know what his true feelings are without asking him. If you’re not comfortable asking him about his feelings (and I totally understand if you aren’t!) it would probably be best to try and move on. Think about the consequences if you two started dating. There’s a good chance you could lose your BFF. Is it worth it? Boys are so confusing and I would hate for you to fall for him, when it’s possible his flirting could turn out to be silly antics to get his ex back. You deserve better!

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by Rachael Allen | 2/1/2016
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