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Should you date a "sometimes" jerk?


I like this guy but sometimes he's a jerk – not to me, but to other people. Most of the time he's funny but sometimes he's a jerk. Should I keep liking him?

Hey gal! A guy being a jerk to anyone is not cool. Is he is the type of guy that gets laughs by being mean/making fun of other people? If he is, I would talk to him about it. Tell him he can be super funny without hurting other’s feelings.  If he continues to be a jerk, move on.

 

This is much easier said than done, of course. We often like people that are mean, even to ourselves. Remember that although he’s nice to you now, you never know how he may act in the future. He might decide to pick on your BFF or even you next.

 

Look for a guy who is genuinely nice to everyone. This might sound easier said than done, but all ya gotta do it open your eyes. Text the shy guy in history about the homework or ask the future Picasso in your art class about his latest painting. They’re all over the place and just waiting for you to make a move!

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by Marisa Dunn | 2/1/2016
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