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I said I liked him and we haven't talked since

I went out with this guy, but we broke up. He’s super cute and makes me laugh. We were at a bar mitzvah this summer and he was flirting with me, and we took a picture just the two of us. A month later I told him how I felt, but he was just like, “Thank you.” I was like, “Really? I just told you how I feel.”
He got mad and kissed my friend that night and hasn’t talked to me since. What do I do?


HIS ANSWER:

“The best thing you can do is move on. It doesn’t sound like this guy is interested, so there’s no use in pursuing him. While it may hurt when you open yourself up to somebody, you shouldn’t force it. You’ll be much happier if you just let it go.”



DECODED:

Unfortunately, it doesn’t sound like your guy is interested in a relationship, even if he seemed like it at the time. Guys change their minds just as often as we do. Even though it’s way tough, it will be best for you to move on.



YOUR MOVE:

Instead of waiting around, it’s time to focus your attention elsewhere. Try finding other things to keep you busy like fun extracurriculars or spending time with your besties. Stay positive and focus on all the good things going on around you. Keep your options open. You never know when Mr. Right will come along.

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by Kristen Yeung | 2/1/2016
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