CRUSHES
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Does he like me or not?
Boys don’t have to be a mystery. Real guys give you the straight scoop on all your most pressing Qs so you can finally figure out what he’s really thinking.
My crush was totally flirting with me at our church lock-in, but at school on Monday, he pretended I didn’t even exist! What’s going on?
HIS ANSWER: “It could be social pressure. Most guys are self-conscious about what their friends think.”
DECODED: Guys who don’t give a rat’s tail about their social status are few and far between. If the two of you are on opposite ends of the social totem poll, he might be worried about what his buds will say if you get together.
MAKE YOUR MOVE: Try starting a convo with him when his friends aren’t around—after school, during lunch, or even during passing times in the hallway. He could be anxious or he could just be shy. Either way, be patient. This could be a tough nut to crack, but if he liked you at lock-in, chances are he’ll get over the school-time drama.
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