CRUSHES

Like the old adage goes, breaking up is hard to do. And while you're bound to pine for a little after the big breakup, sometimes all that lingering love can mean that things aren't *really* over between you and your boo. Read on for the eight signs you two might be meant to be after all... 

1. You just can’t stand the idea of being with anyone else. (This is NOT the same as not being able to stand the idea of them being with someone else. That's just jealousy, girl.)

2. A fair amount of time (usually about half the length of your relationship) has passed, and your feelings haven't changed.

3. After thinking about it, one or both of you really do deserve a second chance.

4. Both you and your ex are feeling bad about how it all ended. While there are some things that you just can’t ignore (like cheating), if the only reason you broke up was because of a disagreement or misunderstanding, it’s def still okay to want to try again.

5. Everyone keeps saying how you’re perfect for each other. If the people who know you best, like your mom, dad and best friends are all mourning the break-up too, it's something to consider—but DO NOT let anyone pressure you. 

6. You’re in the same place now—not necessarily geographically, but you've both matured and become stronger people on your own.

7. You still feel butterflies every time you see them—and not the nervous, "oh-there's-my-ex" kind. The happy, lovey kind.

8. They want to get back together, too. Seems obvious, but this a pretty crucial part of the equation...

Have you ever decided to give someone another chance? Share with us in the comments below!

Photo credit: Justin Bieber

by Alexa Matthews | 2/1/2016