CRUSHES

Hey girlie! OK so even though this is a very sticky situation, do not panic.  You and your BF have been together for a long time, so I am sure you will get this figured out.  In order to make you feel better about your relationship and to keep this girl away you will need to have a mature conversation with both this girl and your boyfriend. Here are some options to use when discussing how you feel with both of them.

How to approach your boyfriend:

He should know how upset and threatened you feel from this girl. Even though he might have no feelings for her, it is still very upsetting. You need to let him know that it is totally not OK with you if he lets her spend time around him. You should also ask him to explain how they happened to KISS! I hope that he did everything he could to get that girl out of his house. In the end, you need to make it clear to your BF that if anything like this happens again, it’s grounds for breaking up.

How to deal with the girl:

Remember that while talking to her you need to stay strong and not show how threatened you feel. But, you do need to tell firmly her to back off. Start off by telling her that if she had any respect for your boyfriend or herself, then she would not try to have him cheat on you. It just makes her look horrible. By confronting her, it will show her how strong you are and how much your relationship means to you.

by Elizabeth Kuntz | 2/1/2016