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Help! Everyone's bashing my BF
Almost everyone hates on my BF. They talk bad about him, and make up
horrible rumors to make me break up with him. I don't believe them, and
my parents and friends don't believe these rumors either and think he is
an okay kid. What do I do?
That's a tough
sitch. Luckily, your friends and fam don't believe the horrible rumors
about your BF. If the people who trust and love you aren't concerned,
then don't worry too much. It's great that you're surrounding yourself
with a support network of friends and family who you can confide in and
with whom you can discuss the hurtful rumors.
If you haven't
talked to your BF about the rumors, you should consider bringing it up.
Ask him if he's heard people saying untrue things. Assure him you
don't believe they're true and let him know that it bothers you that
people would tell lies about him. It's okay to ask him to confirm that
the rumors aren't true too. Discussing your feelings with your BF will
make you feel better.
Now all that's left
to do is hold your head high and ignore those nasty comments. Take
comfort in knowing that your BF, your BFFs and your fam have got your
back. Best of luck!
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