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Why dating an older guy isn't the best idea...
Two boys asked me out, and I don’t know which one to go out
with. One is 13 (like me), and he is nice and cares for me—but I don’t think
he’s cute. The other says he loves me, and he is sooo cute and sweet—but he’s
18.
Dear Double Dudes,
Going out with a guy five years older than you is a big
mistake at this stage of your life. But that doesn’t mean you have to go out
with the other guy, either! Who says you have to pick one of these two dudes?
The world is bursting with guys—over 3 billion, to be precise—so there’s no
need to make snappy decisions. This is definitely not your last chance at
romance. Sometimes, the getting-to-know-a-guy thing is more fun and less
complicated than the going-out-with-a-guy thing. BTW, once you get to know the
not-so-cute guy a little better, you might find him cuter (or not). Who knows?
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