CRUSHES
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My crush is so flirty, but he has a GF. What should I do?
I have liked this guy for a while, but he has a girlfriend.
When his GF isn’t around, he always flirts with me! I like him so much, but is
he just a player?
Dear Teased?,
You have a couple options. You can continue to enjoy the
flirting but hold on to your heart so you don’t wind up with dashed hopes. Or
you can step back and convince yourself that it’s not worth crushing on someone
who is taken yet pays a lot of attention to someone else—you. Most school
relationships don’t last forever, so it’s possible he’ll move on and all this
low-key flirtation will blossom into something later. But be careful what you
wish for because, chances are, he may always be the kind of boyfriend who keeps
his eyes open for the next romance.
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