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How to deal with a crush that still talks to his ex
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I really like this guy, and he likes
me. He comes to my house a lot, but his ex still calls him. I asked
him why he won’t tell her not to call, and he said he doesn’t
want to. That made me mad, and then he got mad at me for bringing her
up!
Dear Unsure,
Would you want someone telling you whom
you could or couldn't talk to? If he were your boyfriend (which is
not currently the case), then you could expect him not to go out with
other girls. But monitoring a guy’s phone calls is a great way to
scare him off. Don’t bring her up (since it gets you jealous and
him annoyed), and focus on your friendship with him rather than his
relationships with others.
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