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Let it go! Why you should stop begging him to come back
I
met this guy two summers ago. After the summer, we e-mailed and kept
in touch, but we always argued and then I would be the one to beg him
to come back. Last summer, we became very close. But when he broke up
with me, I called him names. I haven’t talked to him in eight
months, but I miss him. He is on Facebook. Should I try to add him as
a friend and see if he accepts? Or should I not, since I’m always
the one begging him to come back?
Dear Heartbroken and
Stuck,
Good news: There are billions of other boys on the planet.
Rather than be the one “begging him to come back,” let him go and
get to know the guys near you. There are more relationships in your
future, especially if you stop the begging and name-calling. Your ex
is a thorn in your side. Remove it and move on.
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