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My BF is pressuring me to be...intimate
My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex, but I don’t want to. Help.
Dear Pressured by BF,
Tell him you don’t like being pressured and that it’s not fun when every hug or kiss turns into a tug of war. Have this talk when you’re taking a walk (rather than, say, being cozy on the couch). Tell him in a clear assertive way that you like him, but don’t plan on having sex for years. If this is a problem, set each other free.
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