LIFE

Accept and respect them.
You're important to your mom and dad, who are very important to your stepparents, making your approval of things even more important to your stepparent. Most stepparents what nothing more than to be accepted by you. And respect is a huge factor in determining what your relationship will be like. Treat your new parent just like you would any adult.

Get to know each other.
You don’t have to tell them your inner darkest secrets, but opening up about some of your likes and dislikes can be helpful in fostering a relationship. You may find you both have something in common and can bond over that, like your mutual love of hiking or watching football.

Let them know you appreciate them.
It's tough learning how to show affection to your stepparent in the same way you do your regular parents. And TBH, the bond will probably never be the same. However just sending them a text to say hi or doing little things to let them know you value them is priceless and will make them feel so happy and loved.

Be open minded.
No two situations are the same, but it’s important to know your stepparent is in the same boat as you—they're still trying to figure where they fit in this new family without stepping on your toes (and if you have siblings, the pressure is automatically doubled or even tripled!). They'll probably make mistakes along the way—and so will you—so keep an open mind and learn to forgive. Holding grudges or being resentful will only hurt yourself.

Are you dealing with a stepparent? If so, how's it going? Let us know in the comments below.