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GUYS | DEAR CAROL

Help! I made out with my bestie's crush


 
My friend and I like the same guy, and I made out with him at a party. My friend found out and said she wanted to punch my face in. Now she says it’s OK, but she doesn’t call me like she used to and, when I call her, she says she’s busy. What should I do? I’ve apologized, but I can’t take back what I did.


Dear Sorry,

I can see why your friend feels hurt, can’t you? On the other hand, you didn’t steal her boyfriend—you kissed her crush, who was also your crush. No real crime in that. In fact, it’s possible she might have done the same thing if given the opportunity. E-mail or leave her a message that says, “My New Year’s wish is to have our friendship back the way it was,” or, “Let’s not lose our friendship over a guy.” Maybe she just needs time for her wounded pride to heal. And if you and the guy become a couple? Nix the public makeout scenes.
 
 
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Mod mod mod I know him though

 

 

Hey Girl, I am sorry but I can't find your last question. Can you remind me?

 

Hannah H. 


Hannah H.

by Tigerh610 on 1/15/2013 3:10:26 PM

 
 

Thanks it would be good if I got to know him better

by Tigerh610 on 1/15/2013 3:09:54 PM

 
 



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He is really sweet and knows me but whenever I look into his eyes he is looking back and his eyes make me like him more and more. Resently we went on A field trip and he sat across from me on the bus and he started playing with my scarf it made me fell not okword and when we came back he asked if he could sit with me and I said ok so he sat next to me and he pulled my hood on my head and he asked if I was tired he was really nice is this a sign?????????????

 

Hey girl,

It definitely sounds like he's interested in you. Try getting to know him a little more!  


Alexis G.

by Tigerh610 on 1/15/2013 7:18:08 AM

 
 



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there is a guy I like and her likes a few other girls and he wants to date a girl but she hates all the boys in the school and he wants to date her so they made a deal that he would pay her 10 bucks to date him is that wrong? I like him I dated him twice and I caught him looking at me every time I look at him I think he might like me? HELP

Hey girl, if someone is paying someone else to date them, they're not really dating.  However, you should still avoid getting caught up in the middle of such a weird situation.  Even if you and this boy like each other, if he's "dating" someone else, your crushin' feelings would be better spent elsewhere.  Here are some ideas of different guys to go for this year.


Karin E.

by tigerh610 on 1/14/2013 6:35:45 AM

 
 

If you made out with your besties crush and she really like him then she probably just feels bad and mad at you. Let her know you were weak and messed up and that she should try and get with him if she really likes him. Or you could tell her he was a very bad kisser and wasnt worth her time, but you could be lying if he was good at making out.

by fashionqn on 1/3/2013 9:45:42 AM

 
 

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Its me again! That's what I figured... We have a lot in common and I think he might like me. How do I find out for sure with out it ruining our friendship or making it awkward if he doesn't?

Hey girl,

You could see how he acts around you--check out this post for signs he likes you! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/11/08/How-to-tell-if-he-likes-you-likes-you.aspx?cp=all. And you could ask him to dance with you next time you have a dance, or if things keep going well you could tell him you like him! If you have a strong friendship and you tell him you like him, saying you want to be friends no matter how he feels, you won't ruin your friendship (and you'll have the chance at an awesome relationship if he likes you too!).

Meghan D.

by Butterflysportsgirl on 12/28/2012 10:20:04 PM

 
 

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I'm friends with this guy and I think i kinda like him... We were supposed to go to the mall with another person, but she cancelled. He then texted me asking if we still wanted to meet. We did and had a great time. Did it count as a date?
-confused and excited

Hey girl,

If you're friends with him and someone else was supposed to go, I would say it was not a date, but if you had a great time together that's a good sign! Keep hanging out with him as friends and getting to know him and see what happens Smile

Meghan D.

by Butterflysportsgirl on 12/28/2012 9:55:55 PM

 
 



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My crush (call him A) is my best guy friend. It turns out he likes me too so I told him I felt the same way. The problem is A like 2 other girl. One of them (call her L) is REALLY nice to guys, if you know what I mean, and they dated at the begining of the school year. The thing is the she still give him whatever he wants. A isnt a bad guy so they only kiss but its like their friends with benifits. The other girl is one of my friends(call her S)... He said he sorta like her but not as much as me... S is nice but I know he is just leading her on. (me and A read each others text-- we're that close) We've liked each other before but it was always when I didnt like him he liked me then when I liked him he didnt like me. But now we like each other and flirt and text and have 7 hour phone calls. Hes so sweet! Its justhow do I know hes not doing to me what he is doing to S.
xxx, N

 

hey! well since you know how he was to S, you can watch out for warning signs to see if he's really a good guy. good luck! 


Helen S.

by NatalieBrroo on 12/27/2012 5:23:24 PM

 
 



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I want to kiss my bf (and he wants to kiss me,) but I got really nervous and was afraid of messing up. My last bf used to critique me after kissing and I am afraid of that happening again. Is there anyway to help calm my nerves? Thanks!

 

hey! don't worry, it will come naturally to you. I don't know why your ex critiqued you, that's not very nice. I don't think most guys will do that. good luck! 


Helen S.

by Bridgge2010 on 12/27/2012 5:04:53 PM

 
 

If he stops talking to you at school or around his friends and is only willing to talk to you when you guys are alone then maybe he is embarressed so leave him alone and move on . any guy that is ashamed by you whyen they are around their friends obviously cant see your true beauty... but maybe he didnt understand.. just come out and tell him
xoxo
Erica♥

by XxEricaxX on 12/26/2012 11:00:03 PM

 
 

Ask her if she had the same chance as you would she have made a different decision and maybe that will make her relize that sometimes you dont think before you do stuff. Ask her if she would have wanted you to forgive her. Let her know that your truley sorry if you knew it would have messed up your freindship then you wouldnt have done the same.! Give her some time to think..

by XxEricaxX on 12/26/2012 10:55:10 PM

 
 



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what do you say after you kiss someone??? cause if you don't say anything, it's totally awkward... know what i mean?

 

Hey girlie, I can't think of a time that I've had that be a problem. I think generally you can just continue normal conversation. Or you can just smile. Silence isn't always a bad thing. It gives you both a chance to reflect on the kiss.


Lauren T.

by Pandagirl528 on 12/26/2012 8:23:35 PM

 
 



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Try this link:

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mailyse f.

by mrm0203 on 12/26/2012 3:49:05 PM

 
 

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by VNJ99 on 12/26/2012 2:55:34 PM

 
 

It does not matter that her friend and him were not dating
She still made out with her friends crush and that's wrong
I know that they are not dating but that does not
Make it right for her to make out with him
I'm sorry but if I were her friend I would be mad
To

by redvelvetluv on 12/26/2012 1:10:25 PM

 
 



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My crush tickled my chin, rested his arm on my shoulder, patted my head, grabbed my leg at a haunted house (and told me), and he jokes around with my siblings and my mom. One day I heard "ask her out" from his friend. I don't know if they were talking about me, but it sounded like it. Then, once I left karate, he was staring out the window the whole time. I told him I liked him over facebook in a cute way: "Me: Hey I really need to tell you something.... Him: What Me: Ok answer these questions lol: 1. What is the 9th letter in the alphabet? 2. What is the word "bike" with an "L" replacing the "b" 3. What is the first letter of the word "unicorn"? Now put all the answers together Smile" Two days after, I saw that it said "seen 2:09 pm". I was hurt because he didn't respond and it seemed like he liked me. What does this mean? I see him tomorrow so what should I do?




He may have not understood! Maybe you should just simply tell him you like him. It seems like he likes you, so just try again!
mailyse f.

by britishgurl on 12/26/2012 12:00:24 PM

 
 



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1. One day my crush missed the bus and I told him he could hang with me until his ride came. I was already staying after school for a rehearsal at school later that night. I talked to him the whole time which was about 40 minutes. I didn't get nervous because I never do around him. I look back on it and he listened to me talk about a lot of personal things and he didn't open up much to me. I know he's more of a listener because he's kind of shy, but I still wish I heard about his life more. I want to know him better but I don't want to be nosy. What should I do?
2. Also with the same guy, talking in person is amazing, but texting is awkward. Do you know why that could be? I just don't understand how we can talk in person for a while, but barely hold a texting conversation. Any ideas?




1. Try getting his number and talk to him by texting first. This is a good way to have him open up...he could just be shy in person. But make sure to talk to him at school too! 

2. You can make texting less awkward by asking questions. You can get to know him better by asking questions like what his families like and what he did for the holidays...these are good starters that open a longer conversation. 

Good luck girl! 
mailyse f.

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by Chloe<3 on 12/26/2012 8:00:18 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD please help me! Lately I don't really even know who I am anymore. It's not that I've changed so I don't know who I am, but it's just that I act differently around different people. I don't know which of my sides I really am. I wanna know who I really am and I want to be myself always, but I don't even know who myself is! Do you have any advice for me? Pleaseeee? Thank you! Smile




This is what growing up is all about! You're just discovering yourself! It will take time and there's nothing you can do than wait. 
mailyse f.

by Thatsnotawkward on 12/26/2012 1:56:49 AM

 
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