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Help! I made out with my bestie's crush


 
My friend and I like the same guy, and I made out with him at a party. My friend found out and said she wanted to punch my face in. Now she says it’s OK, but she doesn’t call me like she used to and, when I call her, she says she’s busy. What should I do? I’ve apologized, but I can’t take back what I did.


Dear Sorry,

I can see why your friend feels hurt, can’t you? On the other hand, you didn’t steal her boyfriend—you kissed her crush, who was also your crush. No real crime in that. In fact, it’s possible she might have done the same thing if given the opportunity. E-mail or leave her a message that says, “My New Year’s wish is to have our friendship back the way it was,” or, “Let’s not lose our friendship over a guy.” Maybe she just needs time for her wounded pride to heal. And if you and the guy become a couple? Nix the public makeout scenes.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/26/2012 12:00:00 AM

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My crush tickled my chin, rested his arm on my shoulder, patted my head, grabbed my leg at a haunted house (and told me), and he jokes around with my siblings and my mom. One day I heard "ask her out" from his friend. I don't know if they were talking about me, but it sounded like it. Then, once I left karate, he was staring out the window the whole time. I told him I liked him over facebook in a cute way: "Me: Hey I really need to tell you something.... Him: What Me: Ok answer these questions lol: 1. What is the 9th letter in the alphabet? 2. What is the word "bike" with an "L" replacing the "b" 3. What is the first letter of the word "unicorn"? Now put all the answers together Smile" Two days after, I saw that it said "seen 2:09 pm". I was hurt because he didn't respond and it seemed like he liked me. What does this mean? I see him tomorrow so what should I do?




He may have not understood! Maybe you should just simply tell him you like him. It seems like he likes you, so just try again!
mailyse f.

by britishgurl on 12/26/2012 12:00:24 PM

 
 



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1. One day my crush missed the bus and I told him he could hang with me until his ride came. I was already staying after school for a rehearsal at school later that night. I talked to him the whole time which was about 40 minutes. I didn't get nervous because I never do around him. I look back on it and he listened to me talk about a lot of personal things and he didn't open up much to me. I know he's more of a listener because he's kind of shy, but I still wish I heard about his life more. I want to know him better but I don't want to be nosy. What should I do?
2. Also with the same guy, talking in person is amazing, but texting is awkward. Do you know why that could be? I just don't understand how we can talk in person for a while, but barely hold a texting conversation. Any ideas?




1. Try getting his number and talk to him by texting first. This is a good way to have him open up...he could just be shy in person. But make sure to talk to him at school too! 

2. You can make texting less awkward by asking questions. You can get to know him better by asking questions like what his families like and what he did for the holidays...these are good starters that open a longer conversation. 

Good luck girl! 
mailyse f.

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by Chloe<3 on 12/26/2012 8:00:18 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD please help me! Lately I don't really even know who I am anymore. It's not that I've changed so I don't know who I am, but it's just that I act differently around different people. I don't know which of my sides I really am. I wanna know who I really am and I want to be myself always, but I don't even know who myself is! Do you have any advice for me? Pleaseeee? Thank you! Smile




This is what growing up is all about! You're just discovering yourself! It will take time and there's nothing you can do than wait. 
mailyse f.

by Thatsnotawkward on 12/26/2012 1:56:49 AM

 
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