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Help! I made out with my bestie's crush


 
My friend and I like the same guy, and I made out with him at a party. My friend found out and said she wanted to punch my face in. Now she says it’s OK, but she doesn’t call me like she used to and, when I call her, she says she’s busy. What should I do? I’ve apologized, but I can’t take back what I did.


Dear Sorry,

I can see why your friend feels hurt, can’t you? On the other hand, you didn’t steal her boyfriend—you kissed her crush, who was also your crush. No real crime in that. In fact, it’s possible she might have done the same thing if given the opportunity. E-mail or leave her a message that says, “My New Year’s wish is to have our friendship back the way it was,” or, “Let’s not lose our friendship over a guy.” Maybe she just needs time for her wounded pride to heal. And if you and the guy become a couple? Nix the public makeout scenes.
 
 
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Its me again! That's what I figured... We have a lot in common and I think he might like me. How do I find out for sure with out it ruining our friendship or making it awkward if he doesn't?

Hey girl,

You could see how he acts around you--check out this post for signs he likes you! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2012/11/08/How-to-tell-if-he-likes-you-likes-you.aspx?cp=all. And you could ask him to dance with you next time you have a dance, or if things keep going well you could tell him you like him! If you have a strong friendship and you tell him you like him, saying you want to be friends no matter how he feels, you won't ruin your friendship (and you'll have the chance at an awesome relationship if he likes you too!).

Meghan D.

by Butterflysportsgirl on 12/28/2012 10:20:04 PM

 
 

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I'm friends with this guy and I think i kinda like him... We were supposed to go to the mall with another person, but she cancelled. He then texted me asking if we still wanted to meet. We did and had a great time. Did it count as a date?
-confused and excited

Hey girl,

If you're friends with him and someone else was supposed to go, I would say it was not a date, but if you had a great time together that's a good sign! Keep hanging out with him as friends and getting to know him and see what happens Smile

Meghan D.

by Butterflysportsgirl on 12/28/2012 9:55:55 PM

 
 



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My crush (call him A) is my best guy friend. It turns out he likes me too so I told him I felt the same way. The problem is A like 2 other girl. One of them (call her L) is REALLY nice to guys, if you know what I mean, and they dated at the begining of the school year. The thing is the she still give him whatever he wants. A isnt a bad guy so they only kiss but its like their friends with benifits. The other girl is one of my friends(call her S)... He said he sorta like her but not as much as me... S is nice but I know he is just leading her on. (me and A read each others text-- we're that close) We've liked each other before but it was always when I didnt like him he liked me then when I liked him he didnt like me. But now we like each other and flirt and text and have 7 hour phone calls. Hes so sweet! Its justhow do I know hes not doing to me what he is doing to S.
xxx, N

 

hey! well since you know how he was to S, you can watch out for warning signs to see if he's really a good guy. good luck! 


Helen S.

by NatalieBrroo on 12/27/2012 5:23:24 PM

 
 



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I want to kiss my bf (and he wants to kiss me,) but I got really nervous and was afraid of messing up. My last bf used to critique me after kissing and I am afraid of that happening again. Is there anyway to help calm my nerves? Thanks!

 

hey! don't worry, it will come naturally to you. I don't know why your ex critiqued you, that's not very nice. I don't think most guys will do that. good luck! 


Helen S.

by Bridgge2010 on 12/27/2012 5:04:53 PM

 
 

If he stops talking to you at school or around his friends and is only willing to talk to you when you guys are alone then maybe he is embarressed so leave him alone and move on . any guy that is ashamed by you whyen they are around their friends obviously cant see your true beauty... but maybe he didnt understand.. just come out and tell him
xoxo
Erica♥

by XxEricaxX on 12/26/2012 11:00:03 PM

 
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