Apple orchards, leaf peeping, pie baking…fall is the ultimate time to romanticize how you hang with your bae. However, where you are in your romance might determine which date is perfect—and which ones you might want to avoid. Feeling stuck? Read on for just the right options. Cue the shared scarf moment…

The First Date

Ah, the early stage. You’re just feeling each other out, nerves are running high and there’s pressure to be “perfect.” The best first fall dates should be fun, light and give you something to talk about without forcing deep conversation.

Your perfect date: A fall festival or corn maze. Rather than a cozy movie screening at home or a fancy dinner, which might feel uncomfortable at the beginning, options like these have built-in activities and entertainment to alleviate any fear of awkward silence. Plus, with crowds comes excitement, which will make the date feel more desirable. And if you plan on doing a group date with a few friends and their S.O.s to keep things light, totally fine (just make sure to sneak in a little solo time with your boo to see how you vibe together). Now just imagine how cute they’ll look in flannel…

The “Beginning of Something Real” Date

Now that you’re getting closer to official status, it’s safe to dive into more solo territory and make things as Pinterest-worthy as your heart desires. Just remember not to try to make things *too* perfect, because the best romantic moments are the unexpected ones.

Your perfect date: Pumpkin carving or an apple orchard trip. A craft like pumpkin carving is fun, messy, and will sure to get you both giggling. Plus, there’s something attractive about seeing each other’s creative side. An apple orchard is a more structured option, but full of endless potential as well.

The Honeymoon Phase Date

You’ve officially moved past the “does this mean we’re dating?” stage—congrats! Things are still exciting, and every hangout feels like it could be a scene in a fall rom-com. Keep the energy fun and flirty, but don’t be afraid to get a little more casual.

Your perfect date: A fall-themed movie night or fall treat baking. Now that you’re officially a couple, it’s safe to ditch the impeccable fits and perfect makeup (as cute as they are) for cozy hoodies and a more intimate environment. Turn your kitchen into a cozy corner by baking apple pie, pumpkin cream cheese cupcakes, chocolate chip cookies or whatever else your autumnal heart desires. Or curl up on the couch with your fave fall flick with a bowl of popcorn and blankets.

The Long-Term Couple Date

You’re in your cozy, confident era—the “we’ve been through every season together” stage. The best dates here are less about impressing and more about reconnecting and keeping things fun.

Your perfect date: A hike through the foliage or a haunted house. As much as you heart your Netflix binge sessions, now that you’ve been together a while, it might be time to shake things up. Keep your relationship interesting with new and unexpected dates. A haunted house visit will get your adrenaline rushing (and hopefully a protective arm around your shoulder), while a hike will connect you with nature and give you something unique to look forward to.

Tag us on Insta @girlslifemag when you post your adorable date!

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