How can I be more open and not shy with guys? I’m not a shy person AT ALL it’s just around guys. How do I change this about myself because I notice guys like it when girls are more open with them!’

-JoshLover‘

Hey there hon,

The important thing to remember here is guys are regular people, too. Instead of thinking of them as too cool for school, make an effort to get to know them. Find out if your crush is into sports. You don’t have to become an overnight sports fanatic, but if you ask him about the Superbowl, he’ll be more likely to show some interest. Or if he’s into movies, ask him what the thinks about the new Batman.

If that’s too big of a step, you can make small changes, such as smiling more often and just plain saying “Hi” to guys. This will show you’re friendly, which will make you seem a lot more attractive and interesting. Just take it one step at a time, and before you know it, you’ll have guys lining up to get to know you. If you don’t show them how awesome you are, they’ll never know. So get out there and go for it, you’ll be so glad you did!

Ciao bella,
L’Oreal