Okay, I seriously need help. It’s with the greatest crush of my life, someone my friends say I might even love. I know, kind of scary. My crush (lets call him Ryan) is so perfect. He’s gorgeous with brown hair, brown eyes and a super skinny body. He is also (when were in class, ive noticed) extremely nice and funny. Not to mention, very popular. I on the other hand have blonde wavy hair, brown eyes, glasses, freckles on my face, and im fat. No, I’m not one of those girls who thinks they’re fat, but really aren’t–I am fat. And I want to change that fact. I want to change myself, but for the better, not worse. I need help on losing weight fast, and how to get Ryan. Pretty please help me.’

-Kristen‘

Okay, so it sounds like you have a pretty big crush on this brown-haired, brown-eyed lad! So who says you need to lose weight fast to get his attention? Losing weight fast can be very unhealthy and is an unsafe practice. Instead, you should try to eat healthy and get daily exercise (if you aren’t doing so already). Get three meals in a day and maybe do some running and crunches.

Being fit and healthy is the most important thing in a young women’s life! Also, remember that beauty can come from within. Have you ever thought that your crush might see past what is on the outside and like you for who you are on the inside?

You should try approaching him and making small talk in class when you have down time, at lunch or in the halls. Get to know him in a casual way so he can see how cool of a girl you are too!

Always,
Sharon