My parents got divorced like forever ago, but they still act like children. I always overhear my mom talking about how much she hates my dad and shes always making fun of him and calling him horrible things. I mean, I know why she might feel that way, but she has to know that I love my dad! How can I let her know I hate it when she makes me feel negative towards my dad’

-Tissy ‘

Tissy:

Talk to your mom. It’s possible she doesn’t realize you’ve overheard so much. Let her know that you’ve overheard her saying a lot of negative things about your father and, while you understand how she could feel that way, you’d appreciate it if she would refrain from making those comments when you’re around. I’m sure she’ll understand that since he’s still your father, you don’t want to hear her talking badly about him. If that doesn’t work, talk to a trusted adult whom she respects: maybe her older sister, her parents, or her best friend. Explain the stitch to them, and they might be able to convince her to keep quiet about your dad while you’re around. Same goes for your dad, if he’s behaving like your mom is.

-Andie 🙂