I’m envious of my friend. She has all the guys and has already gone through tons of BFs before middle school. I’m a grade higher and am going to a different middle school. (We have never been in the same school.) But I’m still jealous and hate it when she comes over and can take anything in my closet and make it look so great. Especially when the same clothes look so horrible on me. I know none of this is her fault, but I can’t help getting mad at her.’

-cats+tomboy=tomkat‘

Have you ever thought that what your friend has is more than just a nice body? How she is has nothing to do with her looks and everything to do with her confidence and self-esteem. Guys are attracted to girls who are confident and who look like they are having fun. Your friend probably draws attention to herself because she doesn’t care what other people think. She believes that she looks good and therefore she does.

When she tries on your clothes, it’s the confidence that makes her look good, not her body. Someone could wear the craziest, weirdest, most outrageous outfit, and if they think they look good…most likely, other people will too. When you feel cute, it shows! Instead of yelling or getting angry at your friend, ask her for tips on how to build up your confidence. Maybe she can show you how to turn that old belt you have into a super cute headband!

PEACE OUT!
Cassie