-Hawk Nelson Luver

Hey there hon,

Before you potentially break this guy’s heart, let’s think about the situation first. You have a BF and a BFF—both of them require a great deal of your time and attention. Answer this question honestly: have you been neglecting your friends to hang out with your boyfriend?

If the answer is yes, then you may want to make some changes in your relationships. You don’t have to drop your boyfriend, but you have to remember to make time for your girl friends, too. These are your girls, your sisters, your number ones. True friends will always be there for you, whereas boyfriends may come and go.

Make sure your friends know how much you care about them. Apologize for not spending as much time with them and promise to make changes. You could start a Girls’ Night Only where you and your friends have a sleepover, hang out at the mall, or even just hang out at your house. But the important rule to remember and follow is: no boys allowed.

Your boyfriend should totally understand. After all, he probably wants to hang out with his guy friends, too. No one wants to be with the same person 24/7. Plus, time apart will make the time you spend together even more special.

Lots of love,
L’Oreal