Dear Not Sure,
Depends. If your friend confides about a crush, it’s a breach of confidence to blab to her mom. But if your friend is talking about harming herself, it’s foolish to keep that secret. Did you spill the beans to get her in trouble or to be helpful? Examine your motives, then talk to your friend. Apologize if appropriate but, if you had good reason, explain it.

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