My BFF Wants Me Back!

You and your two BFFs had a great friendship until they decide to leave you behind.
Now that one of them wants you back, you're torn on whether or not to forgive her.

I'm in a BF pack of three, which is never a good idea, The one I was closer to abandoned me for our other BFF. She said, "Well, I just want it to be the two of us." I was pretty much hopeless for about a year. But then she crawls back to me and says she regrets it all. Should I forgive her?


BFF Fix- It: Three-way BFF relationships are always tough. It's wrong that your friend turned her back on you and cut you out. But remember, the blame doesn't all go to her because it takes two to tango!


If you feel like she's sincere, forgive her after you hear her out. Have a little chat and talk about how you felt when she hurt you. Let her know it wasn't cool to leave you hanging like that. But don't jump in and be BFF with her just yet. Test her out and see if she has changed. Start off with some group hang outs and if things go well slowly step in to your usual Saturday sleepover routine. You never know if she's going to juggle you back and forth from one BFF to another!


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11/16/2009 7:00:00 AM
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