My ex-BF flirts with me, and my new BF tells me not to hang out with him.

I like my BF, but I want to be friends with my ex. What should I do?

BILL: You should do what you want to do. The perfect BF cares for you but doesn’t try to control your feelings. Wanting to be friends with an ex is understandable, since you shared a lot of experiences together. Tell your BF to be patient, and focus on creating your own memories together.

DAVE: Solid advice, Bill, but more weight should be given to the current beau’s feelings. It totally makes sense that he’s uncomfortable with his GF hanging with an ex. Maybe if he got an invitation to join the party, he’d feel better about it.

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11/14/2009 7:00:00 AM