Your BFF has found a new crew and a new attitude. She's been spreading lies and saying hurtful things about you. You've been friends with her for a while but this chica has changed. 

My BFF and I tried out for cheerleading during summer vacation. I didn't make it but she did. When we came back to school I found out that she was talking about me behind my back. So I asked my other friends what she said. She called me ugly, a wannabe and weird. She also made up lies—one of them was that at a sleepover I wanted to go home so I cried.

BFF Fix- It:  This bestie has turned into a bad seed. It was so wrong of her to do such mean things! But before jumping to any conclusions, ask her about what went down. Listen to your gut feeling. If you feel as if she's lying, then sadly it's time to end the chapter in the friendship. Think there's hope and she'll come clean? Go ahead and give her another chance—with caution.

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10/19/2009 7:00:00 AM