Best Guy Friend...or Bad Guy Friend?

I invited my adorable best guy friend to my country club dance. He spent the evening flirting with my friends. We got into a huge fight over it and haven’t talked for weeks.
How can we be friends again?

BILL: The good news: Your guy friend willingly goes to dances (quite rare). The bad news: He likes to flirt. If he truly is adorable, he’s likely to be adored. Tell him how his flirting makes you feel. If he cares about your feelings, you can probably patch it up. If not, decide if you want to adore him or ignore him.

DAVE: If you two are just friends, he shouldn’t have to modify his flirtatious tendencies. It’s different if you’re a couple. Is that what you want? If so, you can’t assume he knows your true feelings. Once you two resolve what you are – flirters, friends or daters – the situation should remedy itself.

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5/24/2009 7:00:00 AM