Your friends make fun of you? That’s so lame! Are you so sure they’re true friends? Lots of people have hearing problems—or other issues—so hang in there. These are hard years, and some (insecure) girls go through a mean phase they probably will outgrow.

For now, give your closest girlfriends a lesson in sensitivity. Tell them it hurts when they diss you, and ask if they’d mind sticking up for you instead. Remind them your hearing problem isn’t your fault and that you do your best to keep up with the convo. They could help by not whispering or talking with their backs to you. Keep your eyes out for new friends, too, at camp or the pool. By the way, kids who overcome obstacles often become extremely strong and empathetic adults. You will, too.

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5/9/2009 7:00:00 AM