I'm in danger of failing!
A few months ago I got really sick and I had to miss
school for almost three months. When I’m in school I’m an A+ student, but I’m
now in serious danger of failing and might have to go to summer school.
I’m
doing my best to do my absent work and keep up at the same time. But I’m
swamped. My mom isn’t helping, and the end of the year is looming. I don’t want
to go to summer school! Help!
Hey chica,
I’m really sorry that
you have to deal with all this stress at the very end of the school year. It
won’t be all smooth sailing with this problem, but don’t lose hope! You’ve got
lots of options and as always, GL has your back!
Reach out
First off, you want to
get some assistance from an adult… who knows the best option for you. And
although it’s true that mother knows best, in this case, you wanna head to the
teacher or counselors office. Their job is to make sure that you’re doing well
academically and if you’re struggling then they will help. Especially with your
case, the teachers and counselors will take into consideration your illness
when they help you.
Ask mom again
Now, it wouldn’t hurt
to possibly get your mom into the picture here. Though you mentioned that your
mom isn’t helping, you wanna get someone to back you up when you go to your
school for some options. And let’s just say that adult-to-adult communication
usually works better.
So one thing you want to do is to let your mom know how
important this is for you. Tell her how stressed you are and how you need
support to get through this. When you show your mom how serious the sitch is,
she’ll definitely have your back.
Get friend support
Some other resources
you can rely on? Your friends! Your classmates already went through the
material that you’re trying to make up for… They’ve got all the knowledge you
need! So ask’em for help. If you’re having trouble understanding a part of a
class you missed, don’t hesitate to go up to them and request a 411 sesh on
what you need to know.
Again, getting through
this won’t be easy. It’s gonna require more effort and time. But with all the
hard work you’ve put in so far and with the help you can get, you’ll pull
through for sure… and avoid summer school!
Best of luck,
Jean
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