I don't wanna grow up!

I am 13 and still want to be a kid. I don't wear Hollister clothes like my friends, and sometimes I feel like I don't belong in my grade. I don't want to grow up and I haven't told anyone this.  


How can I accept getting older but still feel young and happy?


Hey girly,

It seems like you’re caught in a limbo between growing up and wanting to stay young. Getting older is a natural part of life that everyone goes through. Every once in a while, every girl feels like she doesn’t belong. Yeah, it's confusing, but the way you feel is totally normal.


 Growing up can be...great!

If happiness means getting a large ice cream sundae after school, go for it. If you’ve always loved playing soccer, then try out for the team. You can still laugh at silly jokes and have fun at the playground. But growing up means taking on new responsibilities, such as chores at home and watching younger siblings. Do something fun to spice up the new things you're in charge of—blast silly songs while you do the dishes or have a cooking contest while you babysit your little brothers. It's only "work" if you make it feel that way.


Looking forward to the future

Yeah, some stuff about growing up can be kinda wacky and weird, but think of all the cool stuff you have coming up. You might be choosing a foreign language this year, so think about how much fun it'll be to learn French and travel to Paris one day. Hey, maybe you still heart playing with dolls, which is totally fine. But have you ever thought about designing your own clothes for them? Oh, and think of all the added bonuses you'll get from being mature—like a later curfew or hanging out with your crew at the mall without your mom.


Be true to yourself

There’s no rule saying you have to wear Hollister or act just like your friends. Being different is a good thing. Don't be afraid to wear, do and say what ya want. You’ll feel more comfortable in your own style, which will also help you feel more confident. Everyone matures at different rates, so you shouldn’t be in a rush to grow up. Enjoy being young while you can and live life to the fullest every day!


Lots of love,

L’Oreal


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3/15/2010 7:00:00 AM
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