LIFE

When my sister first left for college, I was devastated.

We've always been each other's best friends, and I didn't know how I would survive without our late-night chats and spontaneous ice cream runs. But now that she's a junior in college, I've learned a thing or two about how to cope with her being away—and how to keep in touch and actually become even closer. 

If your older sib (or an older cousin or friend...or really, anyone who you're tight with) is moving away soon, read on for some tips on how to survive (and, honestly, thrive). 

Create a new *virtual* tradition 

Who said you can't keep up with traditions now that your sib has moved to college? Whether you start celebrating "Selfie Friday" (texting each other silly selfies every Friday) or opt for something like "Meme Monday" (sending your fave memes on Mondays) or play GamePigeon each weekend, making a weekly *virtual* tradition will be sure to put a smile on both of your faces. 

Schedule FaceTime activities 

Tbh, it *is* possible to have fun on FaceTime! Our fave way to spice up your usual calls? Some scheduled activities, ofc!

Make a list of everything you love to do together and see which ones can translate easily  to FaceTime. While you may not be able to go on a spontaneous midnight supermarket run together, you can *certainly* bake your same tried-and-true cookie recipe or play a fun game (truth or dare, anyone?). All you have to do is reach out to find a time that works for both of you.

Mail each other surprises to open together 

PSA: snail mail is *so* much better than texting—there's nothing quite like receiving a letter or a package! Now that your sib is away, it's the perf opportunity to mail them surprises.

Whether you send a sweet letter or an extravagant package filled with snacks and Squishmallows, make sure they call you when they open it so you can get their live reaction. We're sure their face will instantly light up when they get mail from you. And who knows? Maybe they'll return the favor!

Remember: they'll be busier—and that's OK! 

The transition from high school to college is no joke. With a new school comes new classes, new teachers, new friends and a new living sitch. All of this newness can be a tough adjustment.

If your sib takes an extra few minutes to text you back, don't take it personally! Just remind yourself that they're probably overwhelmed with assignments, making new friends and adjusting to a new place. Chances are, they miss you a *ton*, even if they don't show it! 

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by Eva Mandelbaum | 10/7/2024